Society

I'm 20

Yes!

Its all about me and my brain integrated with yours.
I'm not the person who has a route map prepared for where to go in life. I'm sure most of us figured that mental growth does not run parallel to anything else but experience. But how does one grow into being an individual who has no concern about what one's actions can bring about?

I'm 20 and feeling older than most people. I'm in love with adventure, addicted to traveling and at the end of the day I think that "I should live my life". This could be why I feel older, probably also the reason why they find me boring. But just how does being a responsible drinker, planning a future, and keeping troubles at my pockets make me uninteresting? 

I am all for having fun and leaving on spontaneous trips, impulsive adventures. But it cannot be something that's done every other day, not for me at least. I can't explain about the bitch called a hangover. It's fucking disgusting that how people so comfortably take fellow people for granted.

BIRTH

SCHOOL

GRADUATION

JOB

MONEY

MARRIAGE

CHILD

DEATH

It's not just about all this!

OUR NEXT HALF:

       Emergency Emergency Emergency ....................!!!!
                           
                    whole family rushes to hospital DARKNESS.......... A loud crying.!!

                                     A adorable happiness because of a new born. Pain! crying! Happiness! Celebrations!  continues......! Then starts love! concern! of parents towards their kid. Then after 3 years the child celebrates his birthday but a battle starts for the cause of school!  Then with some compromise, the child finally enters into a huge ocean. The endless journey of the child starts at the age of 3..!!

Everything seems to be new for the child,
he doesn't know,
⦁ Where he is?
⦁ What is school?
⦁ Who is teacher?
⦁ What teacher do?
⦁ What to call his neighbor as?,,,, and any more..!

But when the child enters the school the teacher was suppose to teach these things but actually, what they do..?  teaches some poem, alphabets, numbers..etc.. and some other stuff!! one endearing thing on this planet is "FRIENDS", who thought us about that?, its a admirable thing that we learn by our-self.! With all this strange things the child somehow completes his first day, but what happens after 300 days every parents starts troubling their child for marks!!
 what makes parents to change them self in this 7200 hours (ie., 10 months)??
⦁ Neighbors?
⦁ Family members?
⦁ Parents friends?
"WHO..?".!

yes..! unfortunately child manages everything, but when he/she wants to play or dance or sing or what ever the child wants accept studies...! but no parents accepts this! They only wanted their children to be the best in writing exams, then comes graduation even 90% of them are again selected by parents.

We cant blame our parents for all, everything happens for good but we need to have a dream in our life and work for it..!

Imagine that you are 20 years old and you are remaining with 40 more ie., only 14,600 days (if you leave for 60 years)
Your now done with you past 20 boring years make your next 40 the best at-lest better!

How do you wanna spend these days?
⦁ Buying a 2/3BHK flat
⦁ Earning lots of money for your next generation by wasting all of your time
⦁ Planned for going abroad to make more money
⦁ Getting married and making your children s to be the best citizens
What???

Ask yourself that how do you wanna plan for next 40 years? accept the above boring choice!
Start planning guys..!!



                                                   "DON'T POSTPONE THE FUN"..!

THE LIFE CHANGING "MAY"

                                Fifth month of every year, many assume it as a "life changing month" and many as a "end of a life". I know what your thinking about, yes!! its absolutely right, its all about the Great Indian board exam results. Whats this board exam actually is..? is it studying for 12 months and reproducing the same in 3 hours..! is that so?

                              Why do people want to write this? (This question was asked for some strangers)
-The answers are as follows:-

⦁ To join Engineering/Medical or some other graduation.

⦁ For parents.

⦁ No idea why iam studying.

⦁ Because my neighbor/friend joined.

⦁ Fun/Enjoy/For girls..etc!


                         Does this answers have any meaning? Seriously,,! we have to be proud of our self for doing a thing with out knowing why we are doing it..!!!!!GREAT.

                     
                                       The board exam results of TWENTY-15 is out..! I know every one of you where anxious to get 90% or at least more than your neighbors/friends, if not you but definitely your parents will be. Its the matter of your parents reputation and their standing in society. It doesn't matter how much percent does a student get in exam, it only depends on his neighbor.! Each and every student has his unique dream but parents doesn't allow their children to go behind that every parent want their children to be the best in what the neighbors children is best..!!

I finally conclude it,

                          Guys,"ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR DREAM, THE SUCCESS WILL BE UNDER YOUR FOOT".!

Never get disappointed because of this small one,,! known as board exam...!!!

Do what you want to do..! not others wanted you to do..!




Thanking you,
-VAIBHAV SUBEDAR.  

TRUST

THE DREAM:

          Yesterday i was just talking about some spiritual things like Ramayana, Mahabharata and also about the existence of god..! with my friend. He believes too much about this but iam not telling that its wrong, but i need to share my opinion and want to know about yours. Is this is a story or a reality, if its a reality then how would u know about it..? yes., by reading books!! the thing is even the person who wrote about it is also a human being only that person knows about it..? may be!!

           But now iam not here to speak about this..! it depends on each and every persons belief if he believe its good, if he wont even that's good..! No need of speaking about it..! that to in public! I need to ask you guys a very important question ie., "CAN YOU PROVE THAT YOU ARE REAL..??"..!! if yes how..? please don't tell me that i have Voter_id, Adhar card..or some other stuff!! even that can be fake !! I can understand that your not getting anything but read further, i have tried my level best to make you understand!!

           For example: What's the color of sea?.. Everyone says its Blue.. but iam asking you that why do you think its Blue? OK its much more complicated now let me tell you in a simple way.. imagine there is a person who is born blind and doesn't know anything about colors..! now can explain him that How is blue color..? no its Impossible right?.. So.., what your looking? or what your feeling? may not be true !! your telling the sea is blue because everyone from the birth pretended you that sea is blue if they wont tell you there is a chances of telling other colors so who knows everyone's point of view it differs from person to person, but why the answer is always blue because of the influence of people on others!!
            
           You can be a DREAM of yourself, but what is a dream..? is that word really have any meaning, if yes whats that..?! if not then why do we use that word most frequently, ya here are some of my thoughts or i can say that also as my dream. Each and every person on this earth has his unique dream. some will come true and some wont. Every person has his own right to dream his" DREAM" now lets go little bit scientifically about what do you mean by dream..

Now you just imagine what i say,

          "what we knew about the brain and its working turns out to be all wrong due to this latest breakthrough in science. The discovery- there are five sense organs in our body just like earlier and those sense organs are capable of detecting or sensing whats happening outside the body.  These organs then convert the data into neurological signals that are transmitted via nerves to the brain.  This is where the work of brain starts ie. interpreting , what the brain does is it only understands or interprets the signals that were sent to it by the 5 sense organs . The way it does this is by looking at these signals or understanding them in its own way(ie. the way it wants to see it). So the point is that the brain is not seeing reality but only a version of modified reality (or virtual reality). For every brain experiencing reality there is a unique version of virtual reality that is created by every brain. We can conclude saying that whatever a person is seeing may or may not be reality or might be a modified version of it".

            So, just imagine the life in which you are living which is not true at all, whatever you have been experiencing from birth is just your version of reality and nothing else.
Its usually told that people are influenced by others who are around him/her but that's not the case now.  What's actually happening is that you are seeing them in the way you want to get influenced , so it was always about you and never about others.  

            Whenever you ask a question, the answer is already with you and no matter what the reply is your brain tricks itself into thinking that the reply was the same as what your predestined answer was. So you were never interacting with people and it was just interacting with yourself. all other people and things in this world are just props which your brain uses to create stories of its own and trick itself into thinking that its a part of something that's happening. 

              So, no one knows what reality is and will never be known either. Now i can say one more thing Imagine that you are some "x" person and born in some "X" country and the whole life what you have lead till now in your reality can be a dream, Is this is possible..? yes it may because you don't have any proof that you can prove yourself that your real or a real.

              Finally let me come to a conclusion in your thoughts that what your thinking now..!!,, 
⦁  ARE YOU INSIDE A DREAM..?
⦁ DOES DREAM IS INSIDE YOU..?
⦁  IT IS REAL BUT AS A REAL..!
⦁  NO ITS NOT REAL BUT NOT  A REEL..!

              Now your sitting in from of your laptop and read my blog, your thinking that "does he got mad" no definitely not..!! now your laughing ("HE HE HE")........ What ever you have read now in my blog even that can be your DREAM...!

              At last i can conclude this by telling that, "What made me to write this"..? is, " You cant prove yourself that your real than how can you trust or believe" in the rest..!!!!!!!

"DON'T LIVE YOUR LIFE LIVE YOUR DREAM"....!!!!!!!

Thanking you,




Waiting for your comments,





-Vaibhav Subedar.

SIXTH SENCE

REALITY:

Study..study...study.............!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

                From the birth till the end everyone especially the parents want their children to be the best in it. I think this is what one of ours Indian culture is.. yes..?, it is..! WHY... ..? we have to study.. The answer is, " TO GAIN KNOWLEDGE", is this is really true, YES... This answer holds good only before 10 years but what about the present..?? NO..!! definitely not ! Now a days education is some what similar to a business..!!. Only the person who is good at his academics get a job no matter does he have a knowledge on what he have to work..!! & one more thing if you have a great knowledge and your poor at academics then you wont get a job..! If you want to get a job you have to be good at your academics but if you want to be success full in a that job you need to have a good knowledge about it..! Guys according to me i think "getting knowledge is something different from your academics" yes!! do you agree with me..? So, i think we have to balance both at a time!

                 EXAMS..!! Do any body know the meaning of this word..? Now according to me the exams are to check how much memory power we have. Imagine that you have 20 questions and you have to write 5 questions out of it for 100 marks and you have studied only 15 questions and luckily there is no question asked among which you have studied then....!!! Imagine what will be the situation.. Do exams really change people..???, is it really necessary...???, can we really decide a ability of a person, just with his marks..!!????? NO..! this is what something horrible about our education system which cannot be changed..!

                  Now a days we are studying just to get an opportunity, but seriously we are not aware about how good we are in it. So only studying cant make you a successful person, if you really want to be a successful person just go behind your passion, work hard for your passion for what you are good at..! but the main problem is we all Indians doesn't go behind our passion..! whats the problem..? Does we don't have a passion ?.... ! No each and every Indian has his own unique passion the only thing is we doesn't recognize it.! OR i can say that we doesn't know how to recognize it.! Why am taking about passion means, as am studying Engineering I have asked many people that "WHY HAVE YOU JOINED ENGINEERING". 99% doesn't know why..?!! Yess this is some what DUM..! no body said that its MY PASSION. Everyone is like i joined because my dad OR mom wants me to become an engineer. This is where we are.. we doesn't even know why we are doing this..? and unfortunately we are doing and more_over making it as our carrier. Then imagine that does our life has any meaning..? No Definitely not!.

                    How to become a successful person..? Is every successful person in this world is good at his academics..? NO..! definitely not, they have been successful because of their passion and by working hard work on their passion. How to get to know whats your passion is? or In what your good at..? The only simple method is that you have to ask your friends or the person your good at with.! get to know about your talent just work hard on it. the success and the money will be under your foot. Not only studying and getting marks doesn't make any scene..!

- Work for your "PASSION".
- Work for your "TALENT".
- Work for your "DREAM".
- Work for your "LIFE".
- Work for " YOURSELF".

                     You may not get the success quickly !! but definitely you will be the most successful person but when your working for your success never ever think about the profit or money, work hard on your passion both success and money will be under your feet.!

"DON'T LOVE THE WORK YOU DO, DO THE WORK YOU LOVE" and be the best in it..!!!!!!

Thanking you

-VAIBHAV SUBEDAR.